Lie awake and wonder…
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Can you understand? Someone, somewhere, can you understand me a little, love me a little? For all my despair, for all my ideals, for all that - I love life. But it is hard, and I have so much - so very much to learn.
Sylvia Plath
http://www.hypnoid.com/psytestApr/EM_Beige_Feb2011.html
Diagnosis
This is a high energy client who faces difficulty with abrupt and often un-premeditated action. Sudden changes of mood and energy level are common. Often this individual will create new problems for himself while trying to escape old problems, usually because of an unwarranted reliance on intuition. Best method of entry with such a client is to focus on personal problems that may be troubling them. This will encourage a flight response.
This individual has a sensual nature and is easily gratified with the physical pleasures of the world. However unlike some others, this sybaritic quality is associated with a perceived value system, causing the client to reject other similar behavior seen as tacky or plebeian.
http://www.hypnoid.com/EM_entropy/
My Diagnosis
You feel confident that you are making headway in a difficult and trying time. You feel that the course of action you have chosen is the correct one and therefore the troubles that you encounter will, with effort, be overcome. However there is an ongoing uncertainty which causes you distress, and consequently any criticism whether intentional or not can lead to a sudden and unexpected emotional response. Anger is often quick and abrupt, especially if you happen to be self-centered, which is likely.
Stress and difficulty are building up in you at the moment and they are wearing down your considerable reserves of strength. The current situation feels insurmountable and so you are close to changing course and avoiding the situation all together, which is not typical behavior. You desire a trusting and peaceful relationship and are not finding it.
Spot on
I need to stop relying on other people to provide me with a sense of self worth
How to love a woman.
“You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She’s not perfect - you aren’t either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t analyze and don’t expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she’s not there.” -Bob Marley
